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Counseling Services
Individual, Couples, Family, and Group Counseling
My Approach to Your Healing: You are more than a set of symptoms; you are a whole person with a unique story. My practice is built on the belief that therapy should adapt to you, not the other way around. By integrating various therapeutic tools—ranging from the deep internal work of Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Lifespan Integration to the grounding power of Somatic Processing and Mindfulness and empowerment with tools like Radical Acceptance and interventions from modalities such as Dialectical Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy—we create a path that honors your specific pace and needs. Together, we work to cultivate a profound sense of self-compassion, empowering you to move from a place of "surviving" to truly belonging to yourself.
Specialized Care for Complex Journeys/Areas of Expertise: I specialize in helping individuals navigate the messy, painful intersections of trauma/complex trauma and identity. Whether you are unlearning the patterns of Family or Origin issues, recovering from Narcissistic, Religious, Emotional, or Racial abuse or abuse in general, or untangling the heavy weight of Perfectionism and People Pleasing, I provide a soft landing and a steady hand and the knowledge to equip and empower you.
I also hold particular space for the "quiet" burdens: the exhaustion of caretaking for special needs or medically needy children, the complexities of multicultural and Immigrant trauma, the intricate cycles of OCD personality disorder, Anxiety, or Scrupilosity. Whatever has brought you here, we will face it with curiosity and compassion, not judgment.
Provided Specialties
Perfectionism & People Pleasing
The Struggle: Living for the "gold star" or the approval of others while feeling like you’re never enough. It’s the exhausting cycle of performing, over-functioning, and losing yourself in the process. The Path Forward: We explore the roots of your need for external validation and practice setting healthy boundaries. Our goal is to shift your worth from what you do to who you are, allowing you to live authentically rather than performatively.
Complex Trauma & Abuse Recovery
The Struggle: The lingering shadows of past environments where safety was inconsistent. This often shows up as difficulty trusting yourself, a harsh inner critic, or feeling "stuck" in survival mode long after the danger has passed. The Path Forward: Using a trauma-informed lens, we gently process past experiences at a pace that feels safe. We focus on rebuilding your sense of agency, self-compassion, and the realization that your past does not define your future.
Caregivers of Special Needs & Medically Fragile Children
The Struggle: The unique, often invisible "caregiver burnout" that comes with high-stakes parenting. It is a journey of chronic stress, grief for the "expected" life, and the isolation of being the primary advocate for a child with complex needs. The Place of Healing: As someone who walks this path, I offer a space where you don't have to explain the exhaustion. We focus on navigating the "ambiguous loss," finding your identity outside of the caregiver role, and building sustainable emotional support for the long haul.
OCPD & Personality Patterns
The Struggle: When rigid internal rules, intrusive thoughts, or repetitive patterns begin to shrink your world and dictate your choices. The Path Forward: We use evidence-based approaches to understand the function of these patterns. By leaning into discomfort and slowly breaking the cycle of compulsions or rigid behaviors, we create space for flexibility, spontaneity, and a more expansive life.
Religious Trauma & Deconstruction
The Struggle: The deep disorientation that occurs when the faith or community that once provided safety becomes a source of fear, shame, or control. It often involves "spiritual bypass" and the loss of one’s social support system. The Path Forward: We create a safe, non-judgmental container to untangle your personal values from harmful dogmas. Whether you are seeking to reconstruct your faith or leave it behind, we focus on reclaiming your autonomy and trust in your own intuition.
Racial Trauma & Systemic Stress
The Struggle: The cumulative psychological impact of experiencing or witnessing racism, discrimination, and systemic oppression. This manifests as hypervigilance, emotional exhaustion, and a wounded sense of safety in the world. The Path Forward: We acknowledge the external reality of these stressors while focusing on internal healing. By validating your lived experience and addressing the "racial weathering" on your mind and body, we work toward building resilience, self-worth, and a reclaimed sense of peace.
Group Therapy
Healing from the psychological manipulation of a toxic or Cluster B relationship requires a unique level of validation that traditional therapy spaces cannot always replicate. I facilitate highly specialized, structured clinical group therapy cohorts focused on Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and Dating After Abuse.
These safe spaces allow you to connect with peers who truly understand the dynamics of gaslighting, trauma-bonding, and severe relational betrayal. Together, we work on down-regulating your nervous system, breaking the cycle of cognitive dissonance, rebuilding shattered self-trust, and establishing ironclad boundaries so you can safely open your heart to healthy, mutual connection again.
Consulting
Beyond clinical psychotherapy, I provide specialized, doctoral-level behavioral consulting for corporate HR departments, venture capital groups, non-profit institutions, and ministry elder boards. Operating completely separate from clinical counseling, this branch of my practice focuses on identifying toxic leadership patterns, covert narcissism, and psychological rigidity in high-stakes environments. Recognizing that institutional harm rarely occurs in a vacuum, my approach explicitly integrates a trauma-informed, intersectional lens to dismantle systemic inequities such as misogyny, tokenization, and racial gaslighting. Through advanced executive candidate auditing, equitable board governance training, and post-crisis organizational recovery, I help leadership teams protect vulnerable personnel and build cultures of true psychological safety. To learn how to safeguard your organization's mission and equity standards, please visit the Consulting tab in our main menu.